Getting into a relationship and furthermore leading/ sustaining a meaningful life together involves a life of sharing, caring and eternal love. You’ll have so much to gain and much to lose. There is no magic formula for having an ideal life together.

- Don’t impose rules upon each other, only on yourselves. Give each other enough room and freedom to be what they are.

- LOVE FOR WHAT S/HE REALLY IS...don’t impose too much of your ideals on him – enjoy/ accept looking past his/ her faults without experiencing/ expressing let-down.

- In the marriages of yesteryears, girls especially were bound by rules and traditions eventually dumping themselves in too much of domesticity and ignoring what they are worth for. Dont let rules and traditions overrule you. Times have changed.

- Communicate your dreams and ideas to each other. Give enough room for self expression.

- Avoid allusions and criticisms. That could turn to be much irritating and frustrating.

- But remember, don’t just gloss over problems to keep peace, which is not a good idea in the long run. Certain amount of interference over the other is needed. Genuine faults and mistakes of the other should be communicated in the right way.

- However deeply you love a person, remember the fact that you and your partner are two different individuals. You as an individual have own set of likes, dislikes and priorities. Especially girls tend to be too accommodating and compromising after marriage. To be compromising or not is one’s own decision, but always remember to take time out for yourself.

- Humour lightens up the hardships and seriousness around. Be funny for each other! Have fun.

- Bring intimacy between you to let the magic of your relationship going, Read these few lines somewhere and found them interesting. 

(Romantic love is the love that brings two people together into a relationship and intimate love is the love that sustains a relationship. Romantic love is intense and capable of generating ecstasy as well as agony. Intimate love is more gentle and flowing. Romantic love is about passion. Intimate love is about nurturing.

Both are desirable in a marriage, but not together. Romantic love starts off a marriage and lasts from a few months to a few years. Intimate love stays with you for the rest of the marriage.)

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I was just randomly thinking about the approach to gadgets and apparels by men and women. And here are some of the conclusions I made (Contradictions and exceptions may exist).

Traditionally only men were more tech savvy. Now with more women being educated and on the forefront of workforce, they also become more tech savvy – they are still not novice in using tech gadgets – but yet there is a difference in how men and women view and approach technology!

• Men change gadgets more often when they find the novelty value disappearing. Though modern women may also change gadgets often, generally women tend to cling to their old gadgets. Since women always have an emotional streak to all their possessions – they don’t want to let their possessions go off their hands (whatever – whether gadgets they hold or people in their lives they really love!)

• Men tend to assume they know all with the gadgets. So they may not read through the manual or the instruction set. They are always hands-on with the gadgets. Women always read through the manual and tend to take time in handling the gadgets. (Men also tend to be easier with the tech terms than women)

• But women are too busy to sit down and find something more with the gadget. For men gadgets are part of their life. Men seem to have all the time in the world to sit with the gadgets, dismantle it and even play with it! (Men treat technology as something to be understood and conquered)

• Women may use more of customer service care than men

• The shell life of a gadget with women tends to be more compared with the same gadget to a man. Women are generally savvier handling any objects and tend to hold their possessions dear.

• Generally it is said that men are better drivers than women. Yes. But men violate more traffic laws and drive dangerously than women. So who are better as well as safe drivers? Think out?

• Men may be attracted to something immediately if an item has novelty factor attached to it. Women always want their specifications right. Whether it is in dealing with a gadget or cosmetic or any consumable item. Women want to always have a feel good factor. (It is women who always check to fat content on a food item!)

• Men stick to always the dull and boring black or white in apparels. Women always want their apparels to be colourful and add a fun streak to it.

• Women are big influencers on household apparels. Men consult their wives for getting these. But men are influencers on automobiles, mobile gadgets. Women consult their husbands before buying them

To put in a nutshell, men are hardcore tech savvy and women are softcore tech savvy.

For a man, gadgets are part and parcel of life. For a woman gadgets are part of their life only if it makes their life easier.

WOMEN LOOK FOR FASHION, FUNCTION AND CONVNIENCE IN GADGETS.

Though more women are becoming tech savvy, still a lot of tech gadgets are targeted towards males. Companies miss out on the potential woman customers. Yes women are hard specimens to please than men. But tweak the same apparels to being sleeker and sassy. The women market will then be yours.

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